Sunday, May 14, 2023

Favorite Disney Scenes: A Mother's Love (Dumbo)

 In this series, I will be sharing my reflections on my favorite animated Disney movie scenes. Some scenes may be a brief moment in the movie and some scenes may be an entire musical score. I hope my reflections offer some new perspectives and I would love to hear from YOU what your favorite scene is from each Disney movie I cover. Spoiler warning after this paragraph!

After the box office disappointment of Fantasia, the previous year, Disney then released Dumbo in 1941 as a much shorter and cheaper film. At the time, the film was praised by audiences and even now it is considered a classic. However, it is clearly a product of it’s time as it’s racist depictions of African Americans are seen throughout the movie. Disney+ now includes a Disclaimer recognizing their racism and stating that it was wrong then and it is wrong now. Even if you took out the racism in the movie, the film has other problems, including depictions of animal cruelty. These problems cause the movie to be less of a favorite of mine in the Disney rankings.

That being said, my favorite scene and moments in the movie is that of Mrs. Jumbo, Dumbo’s mother. Disney has an interesting history of multiple movies either having the mother be dead or killed in the movie (as unfortunately we will see in the next film, Bambi). So it was nice to see a mother figure who, despite being imprisoned for over half the film, is still present and alive by the end of the film. There are three majors scenes that feature Mrs Jumbo and Dumbo together. The first is when a bunch of kids pick on Dumbo and Mrs Jumbo comes to rescue him, leading to her being imprisoned. The second is when Dumbo comes to visit his mother and they can only reach out to each other via their trunks. And lastly at the very end of the movie when Dumbo is a star and now can afford to have Mrs Jumbo freed and have her own train car, thus reuniting them again. All three of these scenes are favorites in this movie, but the one I want to discuss is the first one.

Dumbo is a baby “born” in a traveling circus. Throughout the movie, Dumbo is mocked and ridiculed because of his big ears. Only two characters treat him with respect, his mouse friend Timothy, and his mother. One day, a crowd of kids come to see Mrs Jumbo and Dumbo in the pin and the kids start to make fun of Dumbo’s ears. Mrs Jumbo is upset by this and takes Dumbo away from the kids. This causes the kids to enter the enclosure to pick at Dumbo some more, including pulling on his ears. Mrs Jumbo is furious. She takes one of the children picking on Dumbo and gives him a spanking. Of course, the other children run in fear and the circus workers begin to restrain her. As soon as one of the workers grabs Dumbo and takes him out of the tent, Mrs Jumbo’s rage increases and she lashes out to all the workers in order to get her son back. At one point, her blue gentle eyes turn all red to symbolize her fury. The scene ends with the ring master getting dumped into a bucket of water. The following scene shows that Mrs Jumbo is imprisoned in a solitary train cart, with a sign that says, “Mad Animal” on the outside.

This scene simultaneously sparks within me my own anger but also a sense of comfort.

My anger comes from the treatment of Mrs Jumbo. Her actions spark a debate among the other women elephants, who frankly all act like gossipy bitches throughout the whole movie. Many claim that she was a mother protecting her child and some say she should never have acted, “un-lady like”. I can imagine that there are people who may have had similar debates in real life over Mrs Jumbo’s actions. The part that angers me, though, is the human children picking on Dumbo. They should never have been allowed in the enclosure to even be able to touch Dumbo and yet they go completely unpunished. They don’t even have supervision! And then there is the title thrown on Mrs Jumbo as being “mad”.

There is a terrible stereotype of women (especially black women) when they express their anger. Some men respond by asking, “is it your time of the month?” as if that has any relevance. When I served as a hospital chaplain through CPE training, my supervisor had us discuss how we can better provide care to African American women, who are often criticized for being too loud and acting, “crazy” or “unstable”, simply because they are upset. I had a situation in the ER where a patient was dying in one of the trauma rooms. The patient’s daughter arrived and was very upset, crying very loudly and was on the floor. In response, the ER staff called the Chaplain (me)…and the police. When I arrived, the patient was crying uncontrollably on the floor while a white male officer was hovering over her. I asked for some space and I sat on the floor next to her. I didn’t tell her to stop crying, I didn’t tell her to be quiet; because she had every right to respond to her grief and pain in that moment. We need to stop labeling and punishing women for expressing themselves and Mrs Jumbo’s punishment reminds me of this.

The part that gives me comfort is ironically Mrs Jumbo’s anger. In a few ways, Mrs Jumbo reminds me of my mother. Both are compassionate and kind and both will protect their children no matter what. My mother is a fighter. Throughout elementary school, I had an IEP. In the 5th grade, my math teacher refused to follow my IEP for his preferred style of teaching. In response, my mother called the school Principal and demanded that my math teacher follow it or there would be consequences. This wasn’t just said to the principal, but I was present when she told my math teacher to follow my IEP in person. My mother used her anger to fight for me and my sister while we grew up.

A mother’s love is one of the most powerful forces in the universe. There is even a line in the book of Isaiah that relates God’s love to a mother’s love. ‘As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you’ (Isaiah 66:13). Mrs Jumbo is the embodiment of a Mother’s love, willing to protect her child at all cost.

I invite you to share your thoughts on Mrs Jumbo and how has a mother’s love affected your life? It doesn’t have to be your biological mother, as many women can provide a mother’s love. I know many women in my life, outside of my mother, who have given me that same love.

Happy Mother’s Day everyone and blessings to all the comforting and protective mothers out in the world.

Peace,

Kevin

Saturday, March 18, 2023

Favorite Disney Scenes: The Terrifying Forest (Snow White)

 In this series, I will be sharing my reflections on my favorite animated Disney movie scenes. Some scenes may be a brief moment in the movie and some scenes may be an entire musical score. I hope my reflections offer some new perspectives and I would love to hear from YOU what your favorite scene is from each Disney movie I cover. Spoiler warning after this paragraph!

Disney’s Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs was a critical and commercial success when it came out in December 1937. It’s the film that started Walt Disney’s company and one could argue that it’s been a major influence on not only future Disney films but animated films in general.

That all being said, I can’t pretend that Snow White has ever been one of my favorite Disney films. I like the movie well enough, but it’s hard to ignore some it’s issues such as the forced gender roles (e.g. the dwarfs and the Prince have to save Snow White while she remains helpless) and the ‘deus ex machina’ of a true love’s first kiss will awaken Snow White (and when you factor in that Snow White is 14 and an older man is coming to kiss her while she is presumed dead is a little too creepy for me). It is important to recognize that Snow White is a product of its time, much like the other older Disney films; I would still recommend anyone to watch it for themselves.

The film begins by silently narrating that the Queen ruled the land and was jealous of Snow White’s beauty and thus made her wear rags so that she can be, “the fairest in the land”. But one day the Magic Mirror that answers all the Queen’s questions informs her that Snow White is ‘more fair’ than her. This is what begins the film and the Queen’s quest to kill Snow White. Her first attempt has her commanding the Huntsman to kill Snow White and then bring back her heart as proof (savage move!). While the Huntsman watches over Snow White in the meadows, he prepares to attack, only to discover that he cannot do it. He pleads for her forgiveness and tells her to run away so she will be safe from the Queen.

This begins my favorite scene in the movie. Snow White is frightened by the news and rightfully so. But something interesting occurs. As she is running into the forest, her fears begin to intensify, and we see this through the surroundings in the forest. At one point, Snow White’s gown gets caught by branches, but Snow White sees the branches as arms grabbing at her. When she falls into a small pond, the tree stumps that are just floating on the surface turn into alligators. The entire scene gradually gets worse and worse; all the trees have scary faces and terrifying eyes and Snow White gets overwhelmed to the point that she stops running and falls on the floor. When she stops, the scene turns back into the normal forest: the scary trees are gone and everything is all still until all the concerned animals come in.

There are two major reasons why this scene is my favorite. The first is simply the animation. You can tell the animaters of this entire scene worked hard in matching Snow White’s increasing fear in her surroundings and the musical score that accompanies this scene also does well in heightening the emotions through it all.

The other major reason is honestly because I can relate to Snow White in this scene. I mean, thankfully I haven’t had a relative or anyone in my life attempt to kill me. But when I watch this scene, it makes me remember my first panic attack I’ve ever had. In 2016 I was in a bad car accident. While I walked away physically unharmed, my car was completely totaled, and I discovered that the crash affected me mentally. Two years later, I was driving on the highway when I saw a bad car wreck on the side of the road. Suddenly I noticed that my breathing was getting heavier. My heart began to pound in my chest and my hands were gradually becoming numb. The whole experienced frightened me. I decided to continue my drive until my feet and legs were starting to become numb. I couldn’t feel the gas peddle beneath my feet. I worried I would crash my car again if I didn’t do something so I finally pulled over. For the next 15 minutes my symptoms persisted. I was absolutely terrified and at the time I had no idea what was going on. It felt like I was losing control of my body. I found out later that I was experiencing a panic attack, no doubt triggered from the past trauma of my car accident and witnessing another car accident. While I felt helpless throughout the majority of my attack, eventually I was able to begin some deep breathing exercises that I was taught. I like to think these breathing exercises were helpful to me.

And that’s exactly what Snow White had to do in order to calm down. She needed to stop running, cry, and breathe deeply. In my situation, I as well needed to stop driving, express my emotions freely, and begin to breathe. This is why I appreciate this scene.

The scene that follows is when the animals come to check in Snow White and they lead her to the Dwarf’s cabin. She then begins to sing with the animals to help her stay calm as they continue through the forest. I can also relate to this as when I’ve been in a dark forest, I tend to either talk or sing very loudly.

Several years ago, I used to work at Christmount retreat center in Black Mountain, North Carolina. At night, the campgrounds would get extremely dark and with the possibility of a black bear or coyotes, I got scared really fast. So in order to cope with my fear, I would sing random camp songs out loud. Not beautifully like Snow White, but that didn’t matter to me at the time! The point was that sometimes singing can be another form of calmness for us when we are in a anxiety filled situation.

While not every lesson from Snow White is applicable to everyone, the lesson I take away is it’s alright to be afraid and when you are afraid, make sure to stop and breathe and maybe even sing to calm down.

My question for you is what do you do when you are afraid? And what is your favorite scene from Snow White?

Peace and Blessings be with you,

Kevin